Personal CRM, private & local-first

Never lose touch with the people who matter on X.

A private, local-first personal CRM for X. XMate remembers every conversation and nudges you to follow up before a relationship goes cold — no cloud, no account, and no automation that risks your account. Works on LinkedIn too.

You remember their name — but forget where you met, what you talked about, and when to reconnect.

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100% local — contacts never leave your browser
No automation, no scraping — zero ban risk
Free, no account needed

Built in the open by @FrankyGiap — because tools die or get sold, but your relationships shouldn't die with them.

The problem

Do you forget to follow up?

You remember someone's name, but the important details slip away:

  • Where did you meet them?
  • What did you last talk about?
  • When should you reconnect before the relationship goes cold?
How XMate helps

Your personal CRM for every relationship

  • Remember every interaction automatically
  • Prioritize the relationships that matter most
  • Capture LinkedIn & X touchpoints as they happen
  • Get a gentle nudge when it's time to follow up
  • Never lose touch again
Learn what a personal CRM is
Inside your Personal CRM

Everything you need to stay in touch

Everything you need to stay close to the people who matter on X — and LinkedIn too — without leaving the feed or handing your data to the cloud.

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Franky Giap
Founder · met at a conference
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Met at Hanoi Opera HouseAug 15
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Relationship Timeline

Remember every interaction. XMate keeps a running history of your conversations and touchpoints, so you always know what you last talked about before you reach out again.

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LinkedIn & X Touchpoint Capture

Capture touchpoints where relationships actually happen. XMate quietly records your interactions on LinkedIn and X, so your contacts stay up to date without any manual data entry.

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Follow Up Naturally

Reconnect without the friction. Save and reuse your go-to messages so following up feels effortless — and reply in a way that stays personal, not templated.

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Notes, reminders & activity — one home per person
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Personal Contact Management

One home for every relationship. Organize contacts from LinkedIn and X in a single personal CRM, prioritize who matters, and follow up before you lose touch.

Compare

How XMate compares

Weighing XMate against other personal CRMs? Here's an honest look at where it fits — and where the others still lead.

XMate vs Dex

A free, local-first personal CRM for LinkedIn & X versus Dex's paid, cross-channel cloud app.

See the comparison

Dex alternative

Want a free Dex alternative that auto-captures interactions on LinkedIn and X? Here's how XMate stacks up.

Why people switch

Monica CRM alternative

Love the idea of Monica but tired of manual entry? XMate logs your LinkedIn & X touchpoints for you.

See the difference
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Frequently Asked Questions

Everything about your personal CRM

A personal CRM is a lightweight system for managing your own relationships — not sales leads for a company. Instead of a shared sales pipeline, it helps you remember every interaction, keep contacts organized, and follow up with the people who matter. XMate is a personal CRM built right into your browser for LinkedIn and X (Twitter).

As your network grows, relationships quietly go cold. You remember a name but forget where you met, what you discussed, or when you last spoke. Personal contact management keeps that context in one place so you never lose touch with people who could matter to your career, business, or community.

XMate builds a relationship timeline for each contact, surfaces who you're drifting away from, and nudges you to reconnect at the right moment. It turns scattered conversations into an ongoing relationship you can actually nurture over time.

XMate is a Chrome extension that works while you browse LinkedIn and X. As you engage with people — messages, replies and other touchpoints — it records them against the right contact automatically, so your CRM stays current without manual data entry.

XMate scores each relationship by how warm it is, based on how recently and how often you interact. That makes it easy to see which relationships are thriving, which are cooling off, and where your attention will matter most — instead of treating every contact the same.

Yes. XMate gives you gentle follow-up nudges when a relationship is going stale, so you can reconnect before it slips away — without living inside another dashboard.

Your contacts and notes are stored 100% locally in your own browser — they never leave your device by default. Optional AI features work only when you turn them on and connect your own API key, so you stay in control of your data.

XMate is for people who grow through relationships: founders, creators, professionals, recruiters, indie hackers and community builders who meet a lot of people on LinkedIn and X and want to keep those relationships warm.
Have more questions?

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